Bill Napier
Never Too Old

Bill NapierIs 71 years of age too old to start building a new house? It certainly wasn’t for my Grandpa. He was a large man who stood six feet plus, weighed 200 pounds and had red hair that he hated all of his life, but that everyone else loved. He was born into a family of six siblings in 1897 on a farm in south-central Missouri. As he and his siblings started their own families, they lived within a 12-mile radius of their parents, which created a mutually beneficial community for all of them. Grandpa was a man of great character, honesty and ethics, with a heart for his families and others that was as large as his physique. Through necessity, imagination and ingenuity he accumulated multiple building skills, beginning with the house where he and Grandma began their married life in 1922. The mostly stone and wood house had two rooms with a fireplace. The lumber came from trees on his farm that were milled at one of his brother's lumber mill, and the stones were dragged and hauled from the fields of the farm. As Grandpa and Grandma's family grew, so did their house. This was accomplished by trading houses with a brother one time, by adding a room a different time, by adding a few feet where it was badly needed another time, and by buying and/or moving to different farms.

Once the youngest of the seven children and three grandchildren Grandpa and Grandma had raised left the nest, Grandpa and Aunt Elly (his second daughter) initiated their dream of building a large, modern house that would accommodate the ever-growing extended family (25 members then) for holidays and family gatherings. At the time this plan began, my grandparents and Aunt Elly lived in an old house where the only source of heat was a wood stove in the living room (requiring the daily carrying in of chopped wood and the weekly carrying out of ashes); the laundry was done in the kitchen on a wringer washer that had to be rolled in and out of the corner on wash day; the bathroom was warmed by a small space heater that was only used during bath time; and the largest of the four closets was 3 by 3 feet.

Grandpa and Aunt Elly’s plan was to build a house that consisted of a 12- by 12-foot utility room with a washer and dryer (no more wringer washer or clothes line), three bedrooms, two baths, a big living room, a sizeable dining room, and a modern kitchen - all heated by a gas floor furnace (no more splitting/carrying wood or removing ashes). And this plan was to be completed without going into debt. The materials were frugally accumulated by purchasing items on sale, from freight surplus places and farm sales, and by receiving gifts from the family.

At the "young age of 71," the dream house was begun by children, grandchildren and friends helping Grandpa pour the foundation, raise the framing and put on the roof. Almost single-handedly, Grandpa did the electrical, plumbing, insulation, drywall, siding, trim, installation of fixtures and painting, while receiving a limited amount of help from various family members when they came to visit on the weekends. When the work stopped for the day, the helpers would be exhausted from trying to work as hard as Grandpa had all day long. Grandpa, though, would still have the energy to tell stories (which my grandmother would occasionally correct) of the "good ole days" growing up with his brothers and sisters, and of the antics of us children, friends and neighbors. He always delighted in playing with the kids and holding the babies, which would light up his pale blue eyes like a Christmas tree.

After about two years, Grandpa, Grandma and Aunt Elly moved into their dream house. That was a day to celebrate! Shortly afterwards, the dream house was put to the test of accommodating a family gathering that now numbered 34 members. Grandpa and Grandma's 50th anniversary was celebrated and the dream house stood the test very well, although some creativity was required. The newest great-grandson of two months slept in a dresser drawer beside the bed where his parents slept.

Due to a heart attack, the rewards of living in this dream house Grandpa had completed at the age of 73 was short in time but long on satisfaction. His goal of leaving a low-maintenance, low-cost, debt-free house for Grandma and Aunt Elly to live in had been accomplished, and at the "never-too-old" age of 75, Grandpa left this world a satisfied man.

To this date in 2000, that house is still known throughout the community as one of the most energy efficient, solidly built houses for miles around. However, it would not be large enough to accommodate a family gathering today because the children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-great-grandchildren now total 68 family members. My Grandpa was an amazing man!

Susie Napier, January 2000

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