Is
71 years of age too old to start building a new house? It certainly
wasn’t for my Grandpa. He was a large man who stood six feet plus,
weighed 200 pounds and had red hair that he hated all of his life,
but that everyone else loved. He was born into a family of six
siblings in 1897 on a farm in south-central Missouri. As he and his
siblings started their own families, they lived within a 12-mile
radius of their parents, which created a mutually beneficial
community for all of them. Grandpa was a man of great character,
honesty and ethics, with a heart for his families and others that
was as large as his physique. Through necessity, imagination and
ingenuity he accumulated multiple building skills, beginning with
the house where he and Grandma began their married life in 1922. The
mostly stone and wood house had two rooms with a fireplace. The
lumber came from trees on his farm that were milled at one of his
brother's lumber mill, and the stones were dragged and hauled from
the fields of the farm. As Grandpa and Grandma's family grew, so did
their house. This was accomplished by trading houses with a brother
one time, by adding a room a different time, by adding a few feet
where it was badly needed another time, and by buying and/or moving
to different farms.
Once the youngest of the seven children and three grandchildren
Grandpa and Grandma had raised left the nest, Grandpa and Aunt Elly
(his second daughter) initiated their dream of building a large,
modern house that would accommodate the ever-growing extended family
(25 members then) for holidays and family gatherings. At the
time this plan began, my grandparents and Aunt Elly lived in an old
house where the only source of heat was a wood stove in the living
room (requiring the daily carrying in of chopped wood and the weekly
carrying out of ashes); the laundry was done in the kitchen on a
wringer washer that had to be rolled in and out of the corner on
wash day; the bathroom was warmed by a small space heater that was
only used during bath time; and the largest of the four closets was
3 by 3 feet.
Grandpa and Aunt Elly’s plan was to build a house that
consisted of a 12- by 12-foot utility room with a washer and dryer
(no more wringer washer or clothes line), three bedrooms, two baths,
a big living room, a sizeable dining room, and a modern kitchen -
all heated by a gas floor furnace (no more splitting/carrying wood
or removing ashes). And this plan was to be completed without going
into debt. The materials were frugally accumulated by purchasing
items on sale, from freight surplus places and farm sales, and by
receiving gifts from the family.
At the "young age of 71," the dream house was begun by
children, grandchildren and friends helping Grandpa pour the
foundation, raise the framing and put on the roof. Almost
single-handedly, Grandpa did the electrical, plumbing, insulation,
drywall, siding, trim, installation of fixtures and painting, while
receiving a limited amount of help from various family members when
they came to visit on the weekends. When the work stopped for the
day, the helpers would be exhausted from trying to work as hard as
Grandpa had all day long. Grandpa, though, would still have the
energy to tell stories (which my grandmother would occasionally
correct) of the "good ole days" growing up with his
brothers and sisters, and of the antics of us children, friends and
neighbors. He always delighted in playing with the kids and holding
the babies, which would light up his pale blue eyes like a Christmas
tree.
After about two years, Grandpa, Grandma and Aunt Elly moved into
their dream house. That was a day to celebrate! Shortly afterwards,
the dream house was put to the test of accommodating a family
gathering that now numbered 34 members. Grandpa and Grandma's 50th
anniversary was celebrated and the dream house stood the test very
well, although some creativity was required. The newest
great-grandson of two months slept in a dresser drawer beside the
bed where his parents slept.
Due to a heart attack, the rewards of living in this dream house
Grandpa had completed at the age of 73 was short in time but long on
satisfaction. His goal of leaving a low-maintenance, low-cost,
debt-free house for Grandma and Aunt Elly to live in had been
accomplished, and at the "never-too-old" age of 75,
Grandpa left this world a satisfied man.
To this date in 2000, that house is still known throughout the
community as one of the most energy efficient, solidly built houses
for miles around. However, it would not be large enough to
accommodate a family gathering today because the children,
grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-great-grandchildren
now total 68 family members. My Grandpa was an amazing man!